Thanks Wonka and Heavy D for responding,

I always appreciate feedback. My therapist is helping me to see the big picture and to stop taking responsibility for things that are out of my control.

I will respond further after work.

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15