A question for you: have you ever given W the "no OM" boundary speech? If not, then now would be a good time to do so.
What specifically are you talking about?
General thought on everyone I've talked to is what do I have to gain by trying to stop this from happening?
She's checked out. She's done.
She's in the lusty, new love stage of an affair. There's no real stopping it.
I have the same question.
My W also acts nice so I don't interfere with her a affair. It's frustrating because I feel that if she was this nice during our M, I wouldn't have avoided her so much. Honestly, if it was for the affair part of this, I like her much better now.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15