I understand exactly what you're saying. It is such a fine line between detaching and missing a chance to reconnect. As time has gone on, though, I agree with the majority of posters that you need to be strong, independent, and moving forward in your new life. Until she is willing to talk about reconciliation, your interactions should be minimal. Just my opinion.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
