I agree. Every time I feel a reach a new acceptance, I can get bumped back a bit and start over. I can be accepting of the reality at 9am but dying from it by noon. I think it helps to acknowledge that version of your M is over. I let go of control and responsibility and focus on me. We both have to be willing to change.
M:34 H:34 S:4 I love you's:2004 Married: 2008 BD: March 2015 EA revealed: May 2015