W. still planning the separation. She tries to figure out a way to get out of the contract with the landlord. I've noticed that she's grabbed our lease, scanned it and sent it somewhere.
Again she is polite but distant. She is asking a lot of questions regarding my applications. But she shares nothing about her thoughts.
"what was inside your mail today? "," what happens with application for X?"
I will try to accept the idea that this marriage is finished and let go. Take care of the kids and myself. But this is a painful thought for me.
Should I start working with her on the details of the separation? I still think it is wrong to divorce yet, but w seems to be so committed that I actually see no way, that this story will get a happy ending. In about four weeks is our 20th anniversary.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out