Understand your fears. It's three hours until I get home and i'm wondering who'll be at home when I get in. I'd love it to be the W I remember, but as she isn't communicating with me, I just don't feel it's a 'safe' place.
Go in to your talk without fear. If it starts getting sticky, stop the process and walk away. That seems to be te advice on other posts riht now.
Good luck. This whole thing [censored].
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015