Got to take paper to my lawyer next week. Trying to decide if I have lawyer put something in paperwork fighting against a vacation W booked week before filing. Plans to take kids out of country for New Years, without saying anything to me. D will be done by then, do I open this can of worms and put a dagger in the big D, or do I say nothing hoping we can still work thing out. If I don't say anything I paid for half a trip for them, and my kids leave county for holiday.
