Oh Tulo, it means so much doesn't it when you have the opportunity of contact. I get uncontrollable shakes every time I read a text or email from an my ex.
I'm by no means a DBing expert. But I wonder if less is more in these instances. The other thing that jumps out at me, is a bad habit I have in my communication. Making yourself responsible for how you man feels.
Well quiet frankly as many wise people here have told me and in a recent mental toughness course I did "you do not now or in the past have the remote control on his emotions thoughts and feelings". I guess I would encourage you to let him own his feelings and you own yours. You don't have the ability to make him feel anything.
I will leave the rest of the amazing advice to the more expert new comers and vets!
But know I am walking beside you down this road!
Btw you are stunning you look just as I though! Your dogs are beautiful!
