The "talk" scheduled for Saturday..

[Tulo]

Thank you for your reply. Early morning here in Sweden and as usual mornings are the pits..

Yesterday was such a hectic day, and by the end of it I felt a bit better. A little "Well, if he doesn't want me he doesn't have to have me".. That came and went with the night.

I have so many questions that I don't know if I can ask without this becoming a pity-party.
We have gone from talking 10 times a day to not talking at all.
-Were we not even friends? -How come you just shut me out?
When we've got together his R with his kids were pretty bad. (They didn't want to stay at his place and so on. Now they do, and keep in constant contact.)
-Do you feel that now that you get the outside contact you need with them, and therefore don't need me, as much or not at all?
-Do you feel like I wouldn't understand you wanting to focus more on the kids, and that is why you feel like you don't want to continue with me?

It feels like he is so firm in his stance that he doesn't feel anything for me/or the same, that he doesn't even want to explore if he can find his way back to those feelings.
I know me backing off is what DB requires but at the moment it feels like I'm not only getting lost as his woman but as his friend too! That hurts, and I can't understand why..

I have started to think of my validation at our meeting. Will post them in separate post..

Thanks again for your reply!