No matter how hurt and lost she see felt in our relationship I never did anything this malatious and cold. I have no idea how to keep the road back paved easily. Every aspect of me wants to burn the bridge.
Many of us sat and dwelled on the very same thought. This is not something you can find an answer for. All you can do is give her space and detach. Right now she is so far detached from you that she has zero thought as to how her actions are affecting you. Just try and remember, her actions are NOT done with the intent to hurt you. Her actions are completely done to satisfy whatever she feels she wants. She is going to be selfish right now and give ZERO thought as to how her actions affect anyone else. In time, she will begin to reflect. It is just not going to happen right now. How well you think you treated her in the past is not important to her right now. Its not even on her radar. Your job is to OVER TIME remind her through actions.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
