Trying to Follow DB & DR (3)

[Mozza]

I wasn't going to write anything, and I'm still not sure it's a good idea, but I've decided to let you know that I'll stop following your sitch, at least for a while.

I don't get the sense that you're trying to better yourself or get this right. You're still obsessed with MrBond and really want to stick it to him, more than you are focused on your sitch. Many of use have tried to explain this to you and I would even call the recent posts an intervention. And now you just posted this "some guy" remark above. The snark again, the resentment. It is very likely that this is how you came across in your R with your WW, that you blamed her for your bad reactions, for your resentment, for your failure to understand. It could be in the past, but you make it your present and are setting it up as your future.

Right now, you just took what MrBond wrote, much more kindly than his usual style, and turned it into an accusation that needs to be denounced, rather than trying to move on and extract the good from it.

Oh, I'm not going to explain anymore, it really seems to be useless. I follow a small proportion of the sitches and I came here weeks ago because I had hope for you, I was in your corner when people piled up on you because of the poly thing, but now you've lost my interest. I hope you're charting a path that works for you because I wish you no ill.

By the way, I'm sorry you're going through such a tough time. This filing business, I dread it more than I can explain. Always keep in mind that it gets better.