It's best to engage in some introspection activities for your OWN benefit.
Questions To Ponder-What were some of the issues that led to the M's breakdown? -What are/were some of W's legtimate complaints about me that I really need to change and/or improve on? -Why do I feel the need to defend every single thing I say/do? -How can I learn from other posters who post to me? -Can I learn to let things go? -What were/are some of my FOO issues that contributed to the breakdown? -Which specific behaviors, patterns, actions that I need to address with IC?
Get cracking and really start to dig deep to discover who Miman is.....and then clean up your side of the street.
What I would like to see from you is to post some of your views to these questions^^. We cannot help you if you don't share your perspctives here on the possible issues that contributed to the M's breakdown.