Dawn70... Thank you for taking the time to message me back. I haven't been on for a few days. I just needed some time. Work has been kinda nuts (lol more so than usual) and I just needed to ....idk.....try not to THINK about this for five minutes. I know I am getting great advice from people that have been there, done that and made it out the other side or survived. I know it is possible and I know I can and will. I'm just tired of ....this....I'm tired of being left again instead of having found someone (I thought) would never leave me. For better or worse and all that... and in the meantime someone else begins a life with my xW and SS. I just am having trouble getting the 2 + 2 of THAT to = 4.
I have ready through all your posts and you are an inspiration. You seem to have the principles and techniques DOWN cold. I am truly sorry you found out the way you did. I know what that pain feels like. I found out a similar way when I went to pick up my SS to go riding and someone else's truck was parked in the drive at 7:00 in the morning. . . . And to make matters worse....she isn't even hiding it from her son....How does someone just....move on like that??
Anyway this is all old news and I don't expect you, or anyone else to answer those questions. No one knows what her reasons are but her....its just what is running through my head....over and over and over. I know...I need to detatch.... I just popped on to tell you thank you for messaging me. I REALLY appreciate it and will continue to follow your inspirational journey.
M 44 W 44 Married 2007 T-8 years M-7 years 1 stepson (now age 16) BD October 2014 I moved out Feb 2015 Divorce final ....(4-27-15)
