Yeah, WW saw a L the first week she left; I believe she was seeking counsel because she was worried about 'abandonment.' I guess other than that, the L's haven't really come up too often.
As far as detachment, it feels like I'm pretty detached. I think I kind of dropped the rope a couple weeks ago when she told me I had spent the last 8 months trying to get her back and I said to her 'I don't want you back if this is who you are'
I agree she needs the space. I'm at the point that I feel the same way for me.
No response back on the Separation Agreement, not surprising. However, I think put the responsibility back on her is a good thing, this was her decision and all.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)