I had another dream a couple nights ago and remembered your advice. I decided to take the dreams as a comforting sign that my sexual sensual self still actively exisits. Appearently whatever barriers I have tapping into my sex drive dissappear during REM sleep. So even though, I woke up with no afterglow or desire, I did concentrate on enjoying the memory of my nocternal adventures. So instead of frustrating me, I end up content and happy, a pretty nice emotional state to be.
