Talked about many different things, but what is sticking with me is how our marriage had a really dysfunctional dynamic, that was a result of my insecurities and emotional problems but also a result of hers.
I'm really feeling for the first time since D was filed that the collapse of this marriage was a shared responsibility. I'm also re-engaging with the fact that I was completely unhappy in this marriage as well, and have no desire to go back to that marriage.
Having said that, I do believe in my heart that a union between my "old" wife and I has POTENTIALLY to be a happy marriage.
I'm finding it easier to disengage and look forward at this exact moment in time (I'm sure I'll backslide a bunch any second now)
Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34 D8, S5, D2 T:16, M:9 BD + D: 4/3/2015 EA Confirmed 5/6/2015 Separation under the same roof
