That was her anniversary and her birthday gifts to me.
I know that has to hurt, and I think you are showing a lot of backbone by not caving to going. I also think you may need to prepare yourself for the strong chance she takes someone else in your place. I honestly believe that is why she was checking to see if you still wanted to go or not.
It is tough, and I haven't told her no yet. Just left it at the I don't know, haven't thought about it. Waiting for her to initiate a convo about it again to tell her I don't want to go with her.
I think I've somewhat prepared myself for her taking someone else. I thought that right away when she asked if I still wanted to go.
To my knowledge she hasn't looked for apartments since Monday. How much time should I let pass before I give her a deadline on when to be out? It's not bothering me too much for her to be around. I'm keeping busy and not even seeing much of her. I do still want her out, but I'm not in a hurry.
M30 W30 Married: 1 year Together: 4 years No kids 3 Dogs
