Heavy, I don't have any advice for this situation, and I'm hoping that Wonka shows up soon, but I do want you to know that I feel for your situation and hope you can find a way to achieve your goal in this area.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out