That was her anniversary and her birthday gifts to me.
I know that has to hurt, and I think you are showing a lot of backbone by not caving to going. I also think you may need to prepare yourself for the strong chance she takes someone else in your place. I honestly believe that is why she was checking to see if you still wanted to go or not.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
