GoRoPo,

My dysfunctional marriage has featured my wife having a short PA, at least 1 confirmed EA, and now she's dumping me.

I know EXACTLY the way you feel right now.

The magic bullet is time. It's terrible right now. But it gets a little less terrible every day.

Take this opportunity o do something that makes your life better. Do some physical exercise to help release the stress.

It's ok to take a break from this. Just don't run away from it.

Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34
D8, S5, D2
T:16, M:9
BD + D: 4/3/2015
EA Confirmed 5/6/2015
Separation under the same roof