At our last mediation, my STBXW suggested that we keep the kids in the home for the first year and we (the parents) alternate living in the home - one week on/one week off. Does anyone know of this arrangement.

To me, it seems to make it impossible to have a clean break with my W, and makes it difficult for me to detach from my W - prolonging my agony. But it could be better for the kids.

Any thoughts? Has anyone tried this arrangement? I would be curious how it felt, from a DB/detachment perspective.

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017