Gan,

I'm of the opinion of not leaving things unsaid. I've left things unsaid and not had the opportunity to rectify it. Regret is a bitter pill to swallow.

The way I see it (and this may sound harsh, it's not intended, i'm running on about three hours of sleep) you have three choices:

1. You can write the letter to him and send it. What happens will happen.
2. You can write the letter and not send it as a way of forgiving yourself and getting it off your chest.
3. You can not write the letter and wonder what if.


I mean, imo, the worst thing he can do is continue to do what he's doing, which is receive the letter and not talk to you.

Is there any harm in doing it?


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15