Your last post was one of the most sobering posts I have ever read on this site. On the one hand, I feel terrible for you because of how your WW is acting. On the other hand, I have a lot of respect for how you are handling it. Intellectually, I see what you are saying, but emotionally and viscerally, the thought of OM replacing me in our family makes me want to vomit. I do see your point about the upsides: de-romanticizing the A and and making their lives humdrum to hasten the reality check. Nevertheless, it is still a very depressing thought. Aside from breaking up my family, OM is also a very creepy individual. I don't think anyone in our community trusts him - including those that don't know about the A. He does not have a legal record, to my knowledge, but he could be involved in something illegal. I just have no way of knowing. He is just really creepy. I know I sound like a broken record, I just so wish there was some way to keep him away from my children. Not a lot of justice in this world.
