Defacto - I am sorry you made it to this point. It is agonizing and difficult. It will be the most stressful thing you may ever do. My X was hell bent on proceeding, or rather finishing what was started. It is in this light that I caution you....
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I need to really sit down and think about what is best for my children if things continue down this path.
You are going down this path. Make no mistake about it. Be prepared. This person is not your W. She is someone else. Be prepared. Things that will be said and done will be difficult. Be prepared. It is time for you to cover your bases and get in front.
Mahhhty, You are totally right. The time is now. Thanks for keeping me focused on reality.
What other bases do I need to cover? I have protected the assets and W moved out. All checking accounts are separated. I obviously need to put a game plan together for custody. I have a L waiting once I get served. Anything else I'm forgetting?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
