My No problem coment was that she put the trip on the calendar for planning purposes only. I will communicate that I want us both to write on the calendar - Tentative Travel instead of just writing the date and time and location.
So, my no problem was only after he explained it was for planning.
I do have a problem with the kids flying so much in 1 month. I feel that is detrimental to their well being. I will email her this information and try to be as delicate as I can.
That is honestly the real reason I will say no, for their well being. She also plans to take them to XX for Christmas break which again, I have not been informed of in writing nor have agreed to.
