I guess only the passage of time will convince her that I am working on my flaws.
Bob,
Its possible, but its also possible she may never see them. Its hard getting to the point where you accept either possibility happening, but your doing the right things as best you can. Its out of your control, but you should still be proud of your efforts. Keep moving forward, you got this.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be