So I saw my IC yesterday and updated him on the sitch. He mentioned that I shouldn't say the "No thank you" because it's imposing a judgement on the sitch without her input.
I finally responded last night saying "I would like to be able to discuss the cats with you. let me know if we can."
She hasn't responded yet.
I just got a call from the local sheriff's office, I missed the call but I was asked to call them back.
Guess I have some paperwork coming at me.
Me:33 W:34 T:13 M:8.5 D mentioned & S 2/13/15 "We can never get back together" 4/2/15 Visited & Mentioned she hasn't filed 4/20/15 "I want to have cats back" 5/4/15 Served D papers 5/8/15