Thanks for all of your help, Cadet! I'll be more careful here on out.

I'm focusing on not changing her or even having expectations of her changing. I'm focusing on me!

I'm so glad I finally bit the bullet and posted on here. Yesterday and today have been significantly better (obviously today is just getting going, but still).

If there are any lurkers out there that are afraid to post, just do it! Not only for the advice, but you can look back at what you've posted and it helps paint a picture of what's going on when your head may be a little cloudy.


M30 W30
Married: 1 year
Together: 4 years
No kids
3 Dogs