Indeed (as I must have posted far too many times) my sitch is different but theres no way I'd have been able to make the changes in myself I did if w and I hadnt been in different places.
Yes, moving out in an owned property, or with kids involved is often a very bad idea for future options but sometimes detachment, self improvement and your own sanity come first. Review your options by all means but then do what is going to be best for everyone involved including yourself.
Positive thoughts to you, keep on keeping on.
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015