Had good convo with DB coach and think I am heading down the right path. Detach, GAL, LRT, but not overly so. If H tries to engage, then engage as a friend would. If there's is a good connection, then stay cool and calm so H does not get the feeling I am overly excited about the moment. DB coach thinks these good moments we are having is causing H to have confusion about D. There is clearly something keeping my H from going, at least right now.
Not seeing. Ton of initiatve, brut definitely a shift in behavior from last week.
One question I did not ask DB coach. I know that my H has lied about details of A. Should I just leave this for now and focus on A if we get to reconciliation? I think he has finally ended A as of last week.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015