Hi Ripken, glad you have a moving date - the 23rd is not long away and will soon come around. The prevailing advice on the boards is 'don't move' but that isn't for everyone.

I didn't feel able to stay in our house after BD as you know - and it has been the best thing for me (emotionally) to move out. I have no idea how people manage to tolerate an ongoing A scenario in the same house. I couldn't do it. As for the impact on our sitch - well who knows. But you posted, got lots of input and followed your heart with your decision. Best not to look back now, only forward and I hope the move goes well.

Take care :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus