Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #2

[Ripken8]

It's not crazy. I guess I'm just not sure how people can do it, living in the same house, while they still choose to disrespect you and continue with the affair. Yes, on paper, they get to see your changes and maybe want to come back, but I don't see how that's likely.

Also, it just made me more angry/upset/hurt and almost start to build resentment seeing that. Sandi continues to talk about the WW needing a "loss" to get out of the fog. How does the loss come if you don't move out/on? How can you have enough sanity and piece of mind to stay pleasant and keep the road paved, if you live in it and with it everyday. "It" being the hurt, the affair, the lack of remorse, etc.

Sometimes, you need to separate yourself from the situation, to heal, before you can live in it again and be ok.

This seems very black/white in my case. Not sure why there seemed to be so much flack on my moving out. Most people seemed to be of the stance of staying in the house or having her leave.

Both options just didn't work for me. More power to you and winhamm, RAI!