Part 19 - keeping on keeping on

[Sotto]

Hi Edz, there will be back steps and so try not to be too worried or discombobulated by them. They are bound to happen. I don't think anyone goes from all out of the M to all in the M without some hiccups along the way.

I would just see this as a phase in the journey and don't push or try and pursuade or fix things with your W. Do the DB things - listen and validate. If you feel unsure, come away and post here for some input.

If your W is thinking about possibly telling MIL - I can understand why she may have jitters. Or it may just be a natural feeling worried about how things will work out. It's much easier to feel secure when there's just you to worry about. But the prospect of re-entering a R is pretty scary I think. I'm surprised she has been as steady as she has for so long actually.

Let us know how you get on - we're all rooting for you guys! ((Edz))