Hi RD, first time poster, to your thread, hope you don't mind me adding my two cents....please don't under estimate what a package you might be for the right woman...I moved 1000's of kms, for a guy in a small rural town, who is a paraplegic and had a 8 year old daughter! What is someone's baggage was my dream man and family I always wanted! Please keep a little glimmer of it in the back recesses of your mind...