BTW - my doting W has answered my dilemma about Mother's day. In the email i sent the other day. 1st. Please be discrete....re: boyfriend around d4. 2. do you want the girls Mothers Day.
Response: 1. she must be confused
2. No
Last time this happened was on d4's birthday. again fell in my custody period, so asked her if she would like some time to do something with her. Found out later, picture evidence - she went to a beach day trip with boyfriend. Meanwhile, she told her friends, family, that I wouldn't let her have d4.
just makes me want to go out of my way all that more.
So will leave presents the girls made at daycare/kinder and no word from me.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015