Oh one more thing, this is the first time I've really seen her in pain over this process.
I know the pain was not for me. It was her guilt and the prospect of being away from her kids. She started to cry, and it nearly made me start to cry.
But it was refreshing to see something besides cold unemotionalness (I invented that word just now) and anger from her. Even when we told our kids, she showed no emotion.
Only one other time did I catch her with her head slumped down in her folded arms while sitting at the counter....
Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34 D8, S5, D2 T:16, M:9 BD + D: 4/3/2015 EA Confirmed 5/6/2015 Separation under the same roof