Yes Eirinn, we need to keep moving in a direction that we need to go and not let the good or bad spots control us. We nees to start living our lives for us. We need to keep laying the foundation for our new future...this foundation will be strong and will support us no matter what happens in the future. With or without our spouse. Gal is a cornerstone to this foundation... Finding out what makes us happy and makes our lives enjoyable again.
It is time to really start to love and respect ourselves more and start to treat yourself like you deserve to be. Start to ask ourselves what do we need today to be happy and to do it.
I printed that lighthouse story you like and have read it 30x at least...I like it a lot. You are a beacon of hope to all of us for how strong you've been.
