I thought everything was okay....(Part 6)

[Mozza]

Involving lawyers is very worrisome for all parties. The trust is very low between spouses during an S. I would say that your WW is probably just trying to gather information because she's worried. Every single WAS seem to insist that lawyers are not needed - mine did, look at Maybell's manipulative H, etc. I admit that I would also be worried if my WW said she got a lawyer. It's like someone showing up at a negotiation with a knife. You don't expect to need it, but it makes feel very vulnerable.

It's interesting to see how much you detach now. I think your WW needs this space. I don't think you're fully detached now, so I stay tuned to see if your WW will have some kind of change when you entirely drop the rope.