I think about my changes often. I sat here for years blaming myself. I really tried to save my family and marriage. I would have given my life. But this is not a black and white kind of thing. It is more complicated. Your farts could have smell like roses to you but not her. Her cooking like Andrew Zimmermas. But to you...well.
I would stop blaming your selfes. Your imperfections are what attracted you to your each other. I can look back and think of a million things to thank my ex for divorcing me. And i can think of a million things to be sad she divorced me.
Yes make changes for you.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
