Got an email from WW yesterday. She knew I was going to the L on Friday. She has asked about a Separation Agreement a couple weeks back and when I said I was going to talk to the L about it, that's when she cancelled MC (mediation.)
Couple little things, but she asked how L went and what I thought of OUR plan for the (emphasis mine) Separation Agreement. I just replied back that L and I talked for a while and asked what she had in mind.
Anyway, it didn't stress me too much. I'm not sure of her motives, she can file in just 3 months. We've went 9 months with no agreement, maybe its so she doesn't need to continue to contribute to the house, maybe she wants me to initiate....IDK.
I can tell I'm pretty much fully detached at this point. As I said yesterday, I've let go of control of the sitch....not in my hands. I think I've gotten to acceptance, IDK. Time to still be patient though, hopefully the communication will improve between us about the kids.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)