You did well. Ignoring the emotional stuff, you now know without showing your hand exactly how he views the position on the fins. Now you can check and refine the numbers. Don't forget to include intangibles such as pensions and savings. As heavy says now double check everything.
Know this, Nole that was a very tough meeting, even for me and I do this all the time for clients with third parties. H was arrogant enough to think he could dictate to you. Listening was your best strategy, excellently done.
Fins are numbers, it's about protecting your future. Not about emotion. Protect you, L now. The Intel you have will cut your costs with the L. The more you know the cheaper the fees. Interview Ls until you find one you can work with, go armed with your knowledge.
The emotions will go, they are going to pass.
Breathe deep and it will be alright in the end and if it's not alright it's not the end. Besides the fat lady hasn't sung yet.
Your heart can only be ripped out of your body if you let it. You need that heart, it is your most precious possession. It is because you have it that you feel so much and that makes you special.
Your timeline is almost identical to mine and in house S is one of the toughest and I feel the same.
Every day it will be better, your heart will recover, and there will be a beating in your chest again.
((((((((((nole))))))))))
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 05/06/1512:51 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW