I think I am also like the lighthouse! I have learned alot from you.
I am not a big religious person, but I believe in God and pray all the time. I know God has been by my side through this. There have been several times in the past few months that I have tried contacting a lawyer and either they don't call back or didn't return my email. I may have taken that as a sign that it wasn't time.
"In the meantime I am DBing, going dark. This is for me."
Good for you V!! 12 steps are great!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"