Julie .... ugh... I feel your pain.

Mar13 while driving up to visit with FIL and BIL my W called to tell me she thought she might have a STD, I laughed and said that was impossi...oh chit. Mind you we were sexless for 3+ years and I knew OM and her at that point were PA, had to put on a poker face during the visit (They did not even know we were going to D)

I then went to get tested and the anger I had, the embarrasment, shame, all that .. yeah .. Even now its a tough one to swallow, thankfully I was clean but now I have to think about that if I were to go on and try to save the M.

And yes .. the stress triggers the outbreaks, I know that just by the way W would explain it, and forwhatever reason she was good with the fact OM gave her this .. for about a year then all the sudden it was a deal breaker .. MLC on aisle 3 .. just nuts.

Sorry to hear you have this, its just not fair what this thing puts people through.


M: 48
W: 47
M16 T26-S8
BD Sept13