Hi Toots. Glad today was a good one Re your H , while I understand the anguish of waiting , my advice would be to relax back and let tiime do its thing Your H can only live in his fantasy world for so long. His email showed his thoughts on you as a person and that is now clear. What he's looking for is. Not realistic He is not 25 anymore. Time will show him his path and I'm of the belief that Toots will have to be patient which is incredibly hard to do but is possible