Thank you V. The last time he came over to talk about finances, it turned into a spew fest about how everything is my fault, that he doesn't want this but it is for the best, he doesn't love me anymore and can't be married to me.

So, we both decided that we needed to put our proposals on paper and email them to each other. That was a month ago and he has continuously asked me to meet him to talk about it, even though he has not sent me his proposal. I've told him multiple times that I didn't think meeting without previously exchanging proposals was going to be productive, but he has been pushing to meet anyway. I have suggested that we engage a mediator to help navigate us through this, but he just ignores it. So I just gave in and said we could meet. I have my proposal ready, and I'm sure he will not have anything and just tear apart what I have proposed. I doubt we will be able to agree, so my goal is to not let it turn into an argument and stop the meeting if needed.

Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer