I gotta tell you that reading this thread is exhausting!!
You sure do SPEND an awfully a lot of time behaving like a junkyard dog who's cornered and snarling at the kind people who are trying to FREE you from prison of your own construct: The Alcatraz of Imaginary Defense.
You could very well use the time and energy to look within to examine the destructive patterns that landed you here in DB. Put down your dukes and sword for real.
It's best to engage in some introspection activities for your OWN benefit.
Questions To Ponder -What were some of the issues that led to the M's breakdown? -What are/were some of W's legtimate complaints about me that I really need to change and/or improve on? -Why do I feel the need to defend every single thing I say/do? -How can I learn from other posters who post to me? -Can I learn to let things go? -What were/are some of my FOO issues that contributed to the breakdown? -Which specific behaviors, patterns, actions that I need to address with IC?
Get cracking and really start to dig deep to discover who Miman is.....and then clean up your side of the street.
Are you truly willing to do the hard work here, bud??
