My thoughts are with you... I fully sympathize with what you're going through.
Everyone here on the boards are great people. But I know how you feel with wanting to talk to someone face to face too. For new friends, check out meetups in the area as 1 idea. You might find something you're interested in. There are also divorce support/care groups you might be able to find in the area too.
Take every day a little bit at a time and one day at a time. It does get easier. The first step is the hardest.
You will get through this.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.