where do I begin?

[Sotto]

Hi Twin, it sounds as though your H is very much trying to make things work in your M. Has that been a big change around since mid March then? It sounds as though you are still treading a little cautiously, which I can understand if it is a recent turn around.

Have you guys both positively decided that you are both 110% in and that you want to make the M succeed together? I can't recall from previously, but have you been to MC together at all? You say that there is still a limbo situation, is that because you remain unsure?

Sorry - twenty questions! It sounds like there has been lots of recent progress though. And it's good that your H has started seeing an IC of his own volition, and is talking more openly. It sounds as though you are headed in the right direction, but it is relatively early days and you are still cautious. What would it take for you to feel comfortable to move forward from 'room mate' zone?

Sorry to ask so many questions!

T :-)