AHW- I'm glad Maybell, Vanilla and Bob have reached out to you.
I read your most recent posting last night and really had to stop and think about how to respond in an effective way.
AHW- Many marriages in various states of failure are described on these boards. There are a multitude of reasons they are troubled - but for the most part, while I am sympathetic, I am able to read them fairly dispassionately. Not so with yours. I get agitated every time I read an update.
Your husband's behavior is outrageous and abusive. I do not use either of those terms commonly and I do not say them lightly.
Please stop living this way.
He is not to be trusted in any way - not financially, not sexually and not as a father.
I can't say it any better than Maybell except to say X1000
Originally Posted By: Maybell
*Don't have sex with him again. *Get STD tested. *Don't worry about him having another baby, seeing her through cancer, whatever. Not your monkey, not your circus. *Get a lawyer and put that person TO WORK. Protect yourself and your kids. If he does have another kid you want to make sure you've protected everything that needs protecting from him.
DO NOT PUT UP WITH THIS ANOTHER MINUTE. There is nothing to work with here. You can do better. You deserve better. Your kids deserve better.
