Same here, Bob and Heavy! While the plan doesn't change "go dark, GAL, 180, positive around her, etc" the focus seems to.
Rather than initially doing it to save your marriage, now it should be about saving yourself. You still have time. Still stick with what's been working for you.
Maybe she comes around and maybe she doesn't. Maybe she comes around and you no longer want that - who knows. Same situation you were in a month ago, right?
You're making great progress on you - keep your chin up!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23